《Born Rich-富贵门(英文版)》

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storehouse of your marvelous mind。 Since you are always 
magized toward something; it follows it can never be 
anyone else's fault; when something es into your life you 
supposedly do not want。 Understand you have ordered it and 
it is being delivered to you; right on schedule! 


The RiskTakers 

The days of defending your present 〃possessions〃 and 
〃positions〃 are gone forever。 Therefore; from this day forward; 
you will never have to concern yourself with such problematic 
issues as 〃maintaining your present job〃; or 〃keeping up your 
current standard of living。〃 Instead; you will put the things 
which 〃can go wrong〃 on the defensive; and you will put the 
things which 〃must go right〃; in ready formation for the 
attack。 As of today; you are a dynamic; vigorous risktaker; 
whose eyes are always turned toward your strengths and 
assets; rather than toward your weaknesses and liabilities。 
Henceforth; you will wake up in the morning; thinking only of 
〃ways to do the things you want to do〃; rather than waking up 
thinking of 〃all the reasons why you cannot do those things。〃 

As of today; you will think repeatedly of the many 
achievements which you are going to acplish in the future; 
that are vastly superior to anything you have ever done in the 
past。 Clearly; these are the results that can only be obtained if 
you are first willing to take some kind of a risk。 Believe me; 
once you undertake this process; it won't be long before you 
start winningand in a big way。 You should understand; 
however; that as you bee increasingly involved in the risk
taking process; you will find yourself forced to draw upon 
resources which you previously didn't even realize you 
possessed。 At first; this may prove very frightening to you。 
Nevertheless; you must always remember you will never hear 
of; read about; or see anyone who achieves anything of 
greatness in his or her own life; without first taking some kind 
of a risk。 

As a case in point; just consider the monumental risks 
which all of our great religious leaders have undertaken 
during the course of their heroic lives。 Then stop and reflect 
upon the enormous risks which all of our great business 
leaders have also undertaken; during the span of their 
illustrious careers。 Finally; as you seriously meditate upon 
these stupendous acplishments; you will bee 


increasingly aware of the fact that you too must bee a 
risktaker for you to develop the greatness you were born with。 
Moreover; you should understand; that in truth; no genuine 
satisfaction in life can ever be attained by you or anyone else; 
who simply refuses to take risks。 For the life of anyone who 
chooses to live with extreme caution will never amount to 
anything more than a succession of dull; soporific days; 
continuing on; without interruption。 

The Diving Board Analogy 

To help you grasp the full implication of what I am 
saying; consider the following analogy。 Just cast your mind 
back to the time when you were a child and attempt to recall 
the degree to which you admired 〃the neighborhood kid〃 who 
went right up the ladder; and dived off the high diving board 
without any hesitation whatsoever。 Then see if you can recall 
the feelings which you harbored in yourself; as you watched 
him take that first 〃risky〃 leap into the water below。 If you are 
like most of us; you probably lost just a little bit of your own 
selfrespect at that time; until finally; out of sheer 
embarrassment; you too mustered up enough courage to 
jump。 Finally; see if you can recollect how good you felt once 
you actually made the plunge and proved to the world that you 
could do it too。 

Now that you have taken your mind on this mental 
journey through your past; bring it forward to the present 
time。 Let it bee fully aware of the legions of men and 
women today wholike the young child looking longingly at the 
high diving boardwould dearly love to quit their jobs; set out 
on an independent path and do their own thing。 However; due 
to their overwhelming fear of failure; these unfortunate people 
never quite work up enough courage to step out and actually 
take the plunge。 As a result; such individuals miss out on 
many of the opportunities that life affords us all; and what is 
even sadder; they never get a chance to plumb 〃the depths〃 of 
their own innate resources。 Since they are afraid they might 
not make it; afraid they might lose; afraid they might fail; they 


simply choose to maintain the status quo and do nothing。 The 
irony is; however; that even if a person should assiduously 
attempt to avoid all risks; he or she will still inevitably end up 
failing from time to time! But the point is; so what? What 
difference does it really make? After all; 〃failing〃 does not make 
us a 〃failure〃; and the only time we do bee a failure is 
when we decide to stop trying any more。 Therefore; even if we 
should falter along the way; we never really fail because we 
always retain the capacity to try once more。 

Flip Wilson's Story 

Flip Wilson; the famous edian; is best known for his 
ability to make people laugh。 But here is what he said in a 
somewhat more serious vein; about his own experience with 
the risktaking process。 〃I fell down and got up; I fell down and 
got up。 For sixteen years I did practically nothing else but fall 
down and get up。〃 

Even so; do you think Flip Wilson ever thought of himself 
as a failure? You bet your life he didn't。 For if he had; he 
would never have found the courage to try 〃just one more 
time;〃 and you and I would probably have never even heard 
his name! 

You should understand; at this juncture; that as soon as 
you seriously set a big goal for yourself; you are going to 
bee involved in a process of risktaking which will add a 
dimension of excitement; indeed a whole new flavor to the 
course of your life。 But at the same time you should be aware 
that as you start engaging in more risktaking behavior; the 
majority of people will be trying to avoid it 〃at all costs。〃 In 
other words; instead of taking meaningful risks; most people 
will continue to ensure themselves in a series of empty 
promises。 These promises; in turn; will ultimately 
have the effect of reducing their existence to the level of a 
meaningless charade。 To understand how this phenomenon 
operates; just consider the people whom you know who have 
promised when buying their new home。 〃Why did they 
promise?〃 you askbecause they were afraid that they 


wouldn't be able to make the mortgage payments on that 
〃dream home〃 they truly wanted to live in。 

Then turn your mind to the veritable armies of 
individuals; who remain in positions at work which they find 
dull and unrewarding。 Why do they stay? simply because 
they fear they would not be able to 〃cope with〃 the position 
which they would truly love to 〃tackle。〃 The irony is; of course; 
if these people would simply put themselves 〃out on a limb〃by 
going after that better job or; that dream home; or whatever 
else it is they truly desirethey would then demand a 
mensurately better performance from themselves。 As a 
result; they would soon discover that the risk they had taken 
was actually paying big dividends in all aspects of their life。 

The Young Millionaires 

Several years ago; I read an excellent book on the subject 
of risktaking。 It was entitled The Young Millionaires; and it 
contained the truelife stories of eighteen individuals; each of 
whom had earned in excess of one million dollars。 In fact; 
some of these people had actually earned many millions of 
dollars; over and above the one million dollar mark; during the 
course of their highly successful careers。 Throughout the 
book; the author made many interesting observations about 
the 〃law of financial success;〃 but the most important one was 
the one which he kept ing back to: namely; although these 
individuals came from a variety of different backgrounds and 
although each had earned their money in a different way; they 
all shared one thing in mon。 

〃What was that one thing?〃 you ask。 Simply put; it was 
thiseven though everything they owned was riding on the 
oute of virtually every major business decision which they 
made; none of them considered themselves to be taking 
〃risks。〃 The reason they didn't; he went on to explain; was 
because they were living their lives 〃as though it were 
impossible to fail!〃 (Note; however; that in the eyes of most 
people; there would be no question that these individuals were 
taking tremendous risksand on an almost daily basis)。 


FighterPilot Study 

In a similar vein; research done many years ago which 
investigated the lives of fighter pilots in World War II; 
determined conclusively that; contrary to what you might 
think; many of the pilots who 〃played it safe〃 during the war; 
were among the first to be killed in bat。 By way of 
contrast; the study also found that; practically without 
exception; not only were the surviving aces individuals who 
refused to 〃play it safe;〃 but they were the greatest risktakers 
throughout the war。 Indeed; as one has the opportunity to 
observe the performance of individuals from all walks of life; it 
soon bees evident that whoever 〃plays it safe〃 in life; dies; 
and dies relatively young。 For although many of these 
individuals remain 〃clinically〃 alive for numerous years; when 
their hearts finally cease beating it is a mere formality; 
because the truth is; they have never really lived! 

By now you have probably said to yourself; 〃All of this 
sounds eminently reasonable; but why should it be;?〃 or 〃Why 
are so many of us destined to go through our entire lives in 
this condition of selfimposed misery; simply because we are 
unable; or unwilling; to take meaningful risks?〃 Well; it seems 
to me if we will only cast our minds back to the formative 
years of our own lives; we will soon recognize where this 
reluctance to engage in risktaking behavior has its source。 
Once we have arrived at that point; I believe we will have e 
a long way in our attempt to bat; and ultimately 
neutralize; this insidious problem。 I exhort you to pay 
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